I have a lotta 'splanin to do!!!

Hey guyss!! im very sorry i havent been updating in forever and a day!! ive been super busy, plus my laptop has been acting up :(. but i have lots of news to share with you!

First of all, Jojuan, Jayven and i are doing awesome! Jayven is 15 months & he is a growing boy!
Second, we are expecting!!! :) it wasnt intentional AT ALL, i was taking birthcontrol , but we werent using condoms.....so i guess i was that .1% , i am about 5 weeks and 5days today. i have SOME symptoms, sore breasts, nausea, mood swings. Thats about it i think. I have my first dr appointment on the 16th of this month, thats just with the nurse and maybe an ultrasound. I HOPE. My EDD is 7.1.12. Our wedding was planned for 6.16.12, but since that is in the danger zone and i dont wana be EXTREMELY pregnant when the wedding gets here, we will wed on December 15, 2012. unless we decide to do it earlier in the year b4 the baby gets here. We have changed the theme & color. the theme is going to be winter wonderland, and colors are going to be white pink and silver.

Im sorry this is short, but im very nauseous! ill write more tonight!!

Sorry For The Wait!

First off, let me start by saying i am VERY sorry i havent blogged in FOREVER!! I have been super sick and I have yet to find out why! I think its the new birthcontrol that I started last month. Anyway, nothing new has been going on lately! Jayven has been teething out of control and crying all day. So i have also been with him babying him. lol. I have been doing some hardcore job searching, just because we need the extra income for the wedding and for me a car and also we are trying to move into a house!

I am really just putting my faith in God, knowing that he will provide for my family, so that we can get our needs, as well as our wants.

This was just a quick update, i need to find out how to get followers on here! if u have any advice let me know!!!

Wedding Plans

I have my bridal party :)!! It consists of 6 girls, Crystal (my sister), Narissa, Evee, Shanell, Martyka & Ivery (my 15 yr old sis and jr bridesmaid). The wedding will take place on June 16 2012, we havent decided on the place yet for sure. The reception will be at the Fort Smith Pavillion with our own catered and cooked food! lol...which is SO0O0O much cheaper, we havent decided on a menu yet, but we will! Only reason why i didnt want to cater it myself is because i dont have servers >.<! So maybe we will find a place that we like that will cater so we wont have to deal with the madness!

The colors are Champagne and Ivory. Thats about all we have so far. Narissa and I are going dress shopping for me on Saturday.! ill update with what we get done and when!! :)))

Much Love

Its a new day

So today i am looking for someone to go wedding dress shopping with, just my luck, i have no luck. My mom says wedding shopping is depressing (for her own reasons of course) && i really dont have close friends here like that, i dont want to go by myself because thats depressing! lol and i dont wana take Jojuan because i dont want him to see!! SO i think ill just go with my lil sis/maid of honor tomorrow. Just to see what style i like on me and prices.!

Jayven is at his grandma's house right now (Jojuan's mom) and we are resting. Job search is a no go && im doing very well on my water diet :) yay! lol. i just need to buy a scale, so i know how much i weigh everyday!!

This one is short and sweet cuz im sleepy, so ill do more tonight!

Much Love

Crying baby boy

So, tonight Jayven is a little fussy than usual.
First let me introduce myself, My name is Ebonee, im 20 years old and i have a 1 year old son (his birthday was July 28th) I am also engaged to my love of 3 years (taking effect September 16th) Jojuan Shade. You probably already know that if you read my bio...lol

ANYWAY

I dont exactly know for sure what is wrong with Jayven these days, he has been whining since a couple of weeks before his first birthday and it hasn't changed a bit. Im thinking he is teething, but hey, who knows right?
Right now, im sitting here after watching the new Planet of the Apes movie with Jojuan, and i came across an old blogspot of mine from 09. LOL, lets just say i had some things to say...

Another thing, I have been trying diets, working out, everything under the sun i can think of just to lose weight, my body hasnt been the same since i got preggo with Jay. So i came across this "water diet". I think ill try it. What can it hurt right? Im not a big fan of water anyway. Ill drink bottled water BUT ONLY Aquafina. I know the difference from tapped and bottled water, I know i know, its a mental thing, but i have been this way for as long as i can remember, its just going to be had to adapt to it, but i am really going to push myself to do it because i want this for me! :)
Well its nighty night time for me

Much Love